I have used photos and text messages, which were given to me by Dr. Chat, or his victims.
The truth about Dr. Suchindran Chatterjee aka Dr. Chat
The Truth is Dr. Suchindran Chatterjee, is a MARRIED MAN, a pathological liar, a sociopath who thrives on romantic relationships with multiple women that he picks up through social media internet sites such as Facebook.
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| This Picture collage was sent to me by one of his victims. |
TRUTH.... all Truth.... Nothing but the TRUTH.
Letter from one of his victims to another. (this message was from Kalpana to Lesley, Sent to me by Kalpana)
I hesitated before I decided to send you this. However i think you may be interested in this blog I found.
This man is total con and I understand that you and he had a relationship until fairly recently.
He
approached me too and wooed me all out. Luckily for me,I uncovered his
lies before I actually met him. I have discovered that he has a number
of women on the go at one time.
Dr Con (as I have renamed him)
has taken a LOT of money of various woman , giving them all the same
stories. I have compared notes with a couple of the women he has conned
and he just repeated things verbatim to all of us. Introduced us all to
the Purna side of the family, whom I believe may not even be his family!
One
lady went to the police because he got a lot of money off her and then
started threatening her when she stopped sending him money. The police
were unable to do anything at the time because she willingly gave him
the money and she lived in a different state so there were jurisdiction
problems. The police told her that Sue , the real Mrs Con , is in all
likelihood an accomplice Either an active or tacit accomplice as its
not possible for him to dedicate all the time he does to to all the
women he has on the go at the same time without her knowing.
He is currently conning some elderly lady Marquette MI.
The
problem with warning anyone when he has his claws in them is that he
convinces them that all other women are crazy and are stalking him. He
told me this when three ladies tried to warn me. The First Lady I sort
of accepted his story, with the second one, I got suspicious and
explored the possibility Good thing I did 😊
I in estimated his background and he lied Just about everything. Almost nothing he said was true.
He
is a sociopath and whilst I really don't give a damn about him, I do
worry about the women he cons as many women are very vulnerable.
Not sure how to spread the word about him.
I
count myself extremely lucky to have seen through him before I
developed any emotional ties to the man, many women have not been so
lucky. Robbed of money and the ability to trust anyone any more , they
pay a huge price for letting Dr Con into his life.
I hope I have not stirred up any thing for you, not my intention
One of the responses from my google account
One of the responses from my google account
Thank you
Suchorita,
My name is Kim, I dated Dr. Suchindran Chatterjee (aka Dr Chat) from November 2012 till
recently
I met him on Facebook. He came across as a very romantic man. He
called and texted me from the time he woke up till the time he went to bed and frequently
sang romantic Hindi movie songs from the 70‘s and 80’s to me.
He invited me to visit him and
in December I went to phoenix, stayed at Westin in Scottsdale, we met
with my friend there, as he lives in phoenix as well. Dr. Chat, never mentioned
anything about being married to Sue Chatterjee. He told me that he had told his
kids Nikki and Bradford about our new relationship and that he had proposed to marry me, no ring
of course.
I came back very happy and posted our pictures on Facebook. When
Dr Chat saw this, all hell broke loose. He called me up, cried and then yelled
at me and ordered me to remove our photographs immediately. I decided to take our picture off of Facebook
wall to mollify him.
He repeatedly told me that his mother would have approved of me.
He frequently talked about his mum and
dad, and cried like a little baby.Among his many fantasies was the lie that he is Indian royalty and lived in a $2million home behind the McDowell mountain. His neighbors were apparently Russell Crowe, and whole bunch of other celebrities. Well, I do not care about celebrity, being a self made person, I am clear headed and down to earth I wasn't looking for anyone with money or a celebrity.
The saga continued... romance took off.... like a volcano....
everyday, he called, texted, cried, sang, and made sure that I wasn't seeing
any other man. I was loyal to him. I fell in love, fell in love with this poor old
man, he did not tell me that he was poor, but I figured it out... I continued
talking to him on a daily basis, he always invited to see him as he was busy
with his CEO job ( I found out six months later he was fired from his job at Kender
Energy in February 2012.)
Every time
I went to see him, I spent lot of money. He came to my
hotel and stayed with me. He even took me to his niece's home, and
introduced me to his niece, her husband and child. I felt honored, I
even cooked dinner at the niece's home. I felt closeness while I was
there. He told me that Anna, niece's father in law, knows that you are
my BRIDE.
In February, he told me that he wanted to come stay with me in Northern Virginia, He asked me to buy him a ticket, which I did. He came and stayed at my home, met all my friends, skyped with my MOM and sister, and told everyone, that we were going to India to get married. I have many photographs of the two of us together during his visit.
In February, he told me that he wanted to come stay with me in Northern Virginia, He asked me to buy him a ticket, which I did. He came and stayed at my home, met all my friends, skyped with my MOM and sister, and told everyone, that we were going to India to get married. I have many photographs of the two of us together during his visit.
All this, while having
romantic relationships with multiple women he met on Facebook and whilst still
being married to Sue Chatterjee.
I spent a lot of money continuing to see him,
while he started controlling my life in a multiple ways. He forced me to delete all male friend's from my Facebook account.
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| I was approached on Facebook by this Lady. |
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Once he had my confidence, he told me that he was poor, and had no money to pay for his bills, medical bills, insurance and food etc. Dr Chat convinced me in to opening a joint account, where I transferred money for his food, medicine, lab test and travels. I truly loved him and believed we were going to marry shortly. I even paid for his travels to see his nephew in Kansas City and for some training in Marquette, MI. I later found out that he did not go there for a training, he went there to meet with another elderly girlfriend. While he was there with her, he texted me poems, pictures of his food, views etc. Repeatedly sent me text messages saying "I Love You" . He was being romantic with at least 3 women while in Michigan in early June. A Pretty Smart man.
As
my suspicion grew, I started asking
him questions about different women on his Facebook page. He started
getting
angry at me, then would start crying and told me that I was crazy and
paranoid. He told me that I am imagining stories in my head. He told me
that he is a lonely man, and no one cares for him.
I continued to pay his bills and whilst visiting him in Phoenix in mid May, he took me around to meet with all his doctors, pharmacists and I paid his all outstanding medical bills. He introduced me to everyone at your doctor's office, and pharmacist as his "wife". I even bought groceries and dog food for Dr. Chats dog KITTY.
Later on I found
out that in May 2013 he took advantage of his wife Sue Chatterjee being in hospital and took me to his home. That was
the first time I saw his home, not a huge $2Million Dollar home behind McDowell
Mountain, but a tiny cottage in a retirement community of Sun City, Arizona.
In June,
right before he was going to come to visit me, I decided to approach one of his
Facebook friends. I was just trying to get truth about Dr.Chat, as I did not
want a liar in my life. Also, he was trying to force me to put all my earnings
in to our joint account, so he can manage my money.
In mid June, I decided to end my relationship with Dr. Chat. I told him that I was convinced that he was lying about one of his girlfriends on Facebook. I decided to contact her. I discovered
that this girlfriend of his from facebook knew nothing about his double life
whatsoever and was totally shocked when I introduced myself and then told her
about his wife Sue. We both started a joint message on facebook with Dr. Chat,
to make sure he got his fair chance to explain himself. When he saw that thread, and called me up, and
told me on the phone, that if I ever let anyone know about my relationship with
him, he would borrow money from Bradford – his son and come to Virginia and stab me to death.
He
continued his demands for money and even asked me to pay for his insurance
renewal and an annual football pass.
I subsequently
became very good friends with that lady, I am grateful for Dr. Chat, for
introducing us to each other.
I became very depressed due to all these drama and decided to call him up, I cried like a baby,
he promised me that he will never lie to me again, he said if I don't talk to
him, he will stop his heart meds and will die, so I promised him I will
continue relationship with him. He demanded money all the time, I could not say
"NO" so I made excuses etc.
He even told me that he is at a Sheriff training this week, and he needed $376
bill to be paid for his Kidney ultrasound, I was going to pay for it today.
Luckily for me,
I saw this blog, I will save myself the $376
and thousands more which he will
keep demanding from me. He pretty much said to me that he would continue to
love me if I continued to pay him money. Not in so few words, but this is the
gist of his conversation with me.
The Truth is
Dr. Suchindran Chatterjee, is a pathological liar, a sociopath who thrives on
romantic relationships with multiple women, it is a sad truth that I am still
in love with this CON man.
I will be
moving on to a healthier happier life... I am going to need so much emotional
support, and tons of therapy to undo what has happened.
This is the TRUTH,
nothing but the TRUTH.
I have
pictures, texts, emails and bank account statements to prove this.
is a
sad story, I can be found on google, email, Facebook.
Kim
"Gradually, he will isolate you from those people who give you support. He will make comments, so that you fall out with those people. He knows that having you alone and isolated from support is where he thrives best. He doesn’t want you to talk to other people, who might warn you off of him."
Kim
The truth is Dr. Suchindran Chatterjee, is a frail old man, not a very good looking man either, ill mannered and foul mouth married man. He is unemployed and extremely poor, at time he does not have money to buy his own food. Yet, he finds these young attractive women and traps them in to his games.
Dating a Sociopath?
I found this other blog on internet, I am posting excerpt of it here.
"The relationship moves at speed, often
this is before you feel ready for it. This can make you question if
there is something wrong with YOU, as you don’t feel that way yet,
‘perhaps you should’? You think.
They tell you all kinds of amazing things
about yourself. Many of the things they say, will be mirrored back to
you, from things that you have said earlier. With the probing questions,
came answers that they will now manipulate you with. They will say
anything that they can think of, to win you, to seduce you""Gradually, he will isolate you from those people who give you support. He will make comments, so that you fall out with those people. He knows that having you alone and isolated from support is where he thrives best. He doesn’t want you to talk to other people, who might warn you off of him."
The seduction stage is now over.
The sociopath now moves into gaming mode.
Now that he has gained your trust, and you have fallen in love, he has
control. It is now time to play the game. Lies are told, and they talk
at a rate of 1000 miles an hour, you become confused. If you object,
they tell you that you are crazy. By now many of you have lost people
close to you, and have nobody else to give you a reality check. They now
have you exactly where they want you.
Maybe those people close to you did try
to warn you. But with his help, you shut out those friends, after all
they were just jealous, bitter, they don’t have what you have?
When you think about things that don’t add up they gas light you further, so you begin to question your own sanity.
"The sociopath can now see the end is near,
his game is almost up. Or at least nearly, but he will give it one last
shot. He will go to great lengths to cover for himself, and tell you
that you are paranoid and insecure. Maybe you are now starting to become
this way. After all, your mind has been played with. You have been
manipulated, and deceived.
You decide that you have had enough. Your
life is now going to the pan. Perhaps you have lost your job,
financially you have lost, maybe you have also lost friends and family
in the time you were defending him and they were trying to talk sense
into you.
You have invested so much and lost so
much, this can’t be true it can’t be happening? You didn’t want all that
loss for nothing ….and so you try to make it work.
But he knows that the game is up or at
least coming near to. So, out of the blue, the truth starts to emerge.
He will do this deliberately. Deliberately he will let you know exactly
what was happening and how stupid you were. You will
feel embarrassed and ashamed that this has happened to you."
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| This Picture collage was sent to me by one of his victims. |
